{"id":7632,"date":"2018-07-01T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-07-01T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/5-myths-about-bipolar-disorder-that-boost-stigma\/"},"modified":"2018-07-10T12:10:04","modified_gmt":"2018-07-10T17:10:04","slug":"5-myths-about-bipolar-disorder-that-boost-stigma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/5-myths-about-bipolar-disorder-that-boost-stigma\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Myths about Bipolar Disorder That Boost Stigma"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>When therapist Colleen King was 19 years old, a psychiatrist told her that because of her family history\u2014her father and brother having bipolar disorder\u2014she shouldn\u2019t have children.<\/p>\n

Today, King\u2019s clients regularly tell her that people have told them they shouldn\u2019t or can\u2019t have loving relationships.<\/p>\n

Sadly, these are just two of the many myths about bipolar disorder. Myths that needlessly boost stigma, and, as King noted, deny individuals with bipolar disorder love and connection.<\/p>\n

Bipolar disorder is a difficult illness, which can create challenges. But kids and healthy, happy relationships are absolutely possible when both partners are educated about the illness and have an effective treatment team (that includes a therapist and doctor) and support network, said King<\/a>, LMFT, who has a private practice in Sacramento, Calif.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s critical for everyone to know that. And it\u2019s critical for everyone to know the facts behind the below sadly all-too common, stigma-perpetuating myths.<\/p>\n

Myth: People with bipolar disorder can control their moods if they really want to.<\/h3>\n

Fact:<\/strong> According to Candida Fink, MD, a board-certified child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist, this is the most stigmatizing myth of all. Many in the public think that if people with bipolar disorder simply adopted more positive thoughts, worked out, ate the right foods and \u201cgot off the couch and did something,\u201d they could stop their symptoms, she said.<\/p>\n

And if they can\u2019t, then clearly they\u2019re not working hard enough. Then clearly they\u2019re weak, lazy and don\u2019t have enough \u201cgrit.\u201d These are additional stereotypes, even accepted by many in the medical field, said Fink, MD, who has a private practice in Westchester NY, and co-authored several books on bipolar disorder<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In other words, many think that people with bipolar disorder are choosing not <\/em>to control their \u201cbad behavior.\u201d This is very problematic because this kind of perspective leads others to be judgmental, critical and even disrespectful to individuals with the illness, Fink said. And what people with bipolar disorder really need is compassion, understanding and support. Because they have an illness. A genuine illness, not a behavior problem.<\/p>\n

Myth: People with bipolar disorder are seeking attention and trying to manipulate you.<\/h3>\n

Fact:<\/strong> Some believe that when individuals with bipolar disorder are expressing thoughts or feelings of mania, depression or suicide they\u2019re just exaggerating, or being calculating. This leads people to be dismissive and to withhold their support. They worry, too, that by expressing their love, they\u2019re just enabling the person.<\/p>\n

They assume that they need to wait until the person\u2019s behavior supposedly improves, or \u201cuntil they understand the consequences of their behavior,\u201d Fink said. But \u201cconsequences don\u2019t change bipolar symptoms. Period.\u201d<\/p>\n

Again, \u201cbipolar disorder is a medical condition\u2014with many complicated layers to it,\u201d Fink said. A prominent part of this medical condition is lack of insight. People with bipolar disorder, particularly during a manic state, are unable to see and understand their symptoms.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhile there are sometimes actions to be taken to protect the person or yourself\u2014such as removing access to car keys\u2014these actions can be taken with love and support.\u201d<\/p>\n

Fink also stressed the importance of listening and believing individuals when they speak up. \u201cThe risk of not listening and not responding is too great. Too often people are afraid to speak out and when they do, we need to validate that and support them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Myth: People with bipolar disorder are scary and not like us.<\/h3>\n

Fact:<\/strong> Sadly, movies, TV shows and the news still depict bipolar disorder as a big flaw, said Karla Dougherty, author of the book Less Than Crazy: Living Fully With Bipolar II<\/em><\/a>. \u201cWe\u2019ll hear of someone committing a horrible crime and \u2018has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder in the past\u2019 is invariably somewhere in the paragraph or the speaker\u2019s script.\u201d<\/p>\n

We are shocked when celebrities \u201ccome out\u201d as having bipolar disorder because\u2014besides their fame and fortune\u2014they seemed so normal, she said. And when we think of bipolar disorder, we think abnormal. We think \u201cother.\u201d<\/p>\n

While \u201csome people with bipolar disorder are so troubled that the scenarios we see on our TV screen seem realistic,\u201d most people with the illness do more harm to themselves (for instance, by self-sabotaging), Dougherty<\/a> said. And most people with the illness are hard workers, supervisors, students, moms, dads. They\u2019re doing the best they can. And they are us.<\/p>\n

Myth: All moods and emotions can be traced back to bipolar disorder.<\/h3>\n

Fact:<\/strong> Clients regularly tell King that their friends and family get worried when they show frustration or disappointment or even joy because they assume it\u2019s a sign of depression or mania.<\/p>\n

\u201cPeople with bipolar disorder can have a bad day without it meaning they\u2019re going to have a mood episode,\u201d King said. \u201cWe can also be having a really terrific day full of joy and laughter without it being indicative of manic symptoms.\u201d<\/p>\n

This is why King stressed the importance of everyone getting informed about what bipolar disorder is and what it really looks like. It\u2019s critical for individuals with the illness and their loved ones to know their personal signs and cues that an episode may be starting (and to have a concrete plan on how to intervene).<\/p>\n

Myth: People with bipolar disorder can\u2019t be successful.<\/h3>\n

Fact:<\/strong> One of the most damaging myths, King said, is that people with bipolar disorder are unreliable and incapable of functioning at a high level. They\u2019re seen as \u201cloose cannons,\u201d and shouldn\u2019t be hired, Dougherty said. These perceptions make people with the illness believe they can\u2019t achieve their goals, King said. Which is patently false.<\/p>\n

Again, with therapy, medication and support, people with bipolar disorder can be successful and lead fulfilling, meaningful lives. Dougherty, who has bipolar II disorder, has authored over 40 books and is working on several pieces of fiction. King, who has bipolar disorder, is married and has a successful practice where she specializes in anxiety, depression, self-esteem and bipolar disorder, and genuinely makes a difference in people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find plenty of examples of individuals thriving while living with bipolar disorder. For instance, Jennifer Marshall was hospitalized four times within five years, including a hospitalization for postpartum psychosis after her son turned 4 weeks old. Today, she\u2019s a mental health advocate who founded \u201cThis is My Brave<\/a>,\u201d a non-profit that uses storytelling to stop stigma and save lives. One of my favorite writers, Therese Borchard, founded the online depression community\u00a0Project Hope & Beyond<\/a>, and continues to pen breathtaking pieces like this one<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Gabe Howard, who also has anxiety disorders and felt like \u201clife was a nightmare\u201d during his 20s, is a sought-after speaker, award-winning advocate, and producer and host of Psych Central\u2019s popular podcast\u00a0The Psych Central Show<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Living full lives with bipolar disorder is not the exception. As Howard told me in this piece<\/a>, \u201cPeople do get well and go on to live amazing lives. I believe that. I\u2019m proof that it is possible and I\u2019ve met lots and lots of people like me.\u201d<\/p>\n

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When therapist Colleen King was 19 years old, a psychiatrist told her that because of her family history\u2014her father and brother having bipolar disorder\u2014she shouldn\u2019t have children. Today, King\u2019s clients regularly tell her that people have told them they shouldn\u2019t or can\u2019t have loving relationships. Sadly, these are just two <\/p>\n

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