{"id":8203,"date":"2019-12-08T22:29:00","date_gmt":"2019-12-09T03:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/taking-control-over-your-choices\/"},"modified":"2019-12-08T22:29:02","modified_gmt":"2019-12-09T03:29:02","slug":"taking-control-over-your-choices","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/taking-control-over-your-choices\/","title":{"rendered":"Taking Control Over Your Choices"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/files\/2019\/12\/saltpeppercrpd-e1448381709687.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-2185\" \/>An old Cherokee chief is teaching his grandson about life.<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"more-2154\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cA fierce fight is going on inside me.\u201d The chief said to the boy. \u201cIt is between two wolves. \u201cOne wolf is evil. He is guilt, anger, envy, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, self-doubt and ego.\u201d \u201cThe second wolf is good. He is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.\u201d \u201cIt is a terrible fight and the same fight is going on inside you and inside every other person, too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The grandson thought about it for a minute and asked his grandfather, \u201cWhich wolf will win the fight?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The old chief replied simply, \u201cThe one I feed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">* the author is unknown and the story is considered public domain<\/span><\/p>\n<p><small><a href=\"http:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/pic-169759826\/stock-photo-salt-and-pepper-shakers-as-angel-and-devil-on-a-black-background.html?src=Vxsczq1BUNmwWYA8w44-dg-1-129\" rel=\"noopener nofollow noreferrer\" target=\"newwin\">Angel and devil photo<\/a> available from Shutterstock<\/small><\/p>\n<div class=\"likebtn_container\" style=\"\"><!-- LikeBtn.com BEGIN --><span class=\"likebtn-wrapper\"  data-identifier=\"post_8203\"  data-site_id=\"63347fe36fd08b6c05de3d9e\"  data-dislike_enabled=\"false\"  data-icon_dislike_show=\"false\"  data-white_label=\"true\"  data-style=\"\"  data-unlike_allowed=\"\"  data-show_copyright=\"\"  data-item_url=\"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/taking-control-over-your-choices\/\"  data-item_title=\"Taking Control Over Your Choices\"  data-item_image=\"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/files\/2019\/12\/saltpeppercrpd-e1448381709687.jpg\"  data-item_date=\"2019-12-08T22:29:00-05:00\"  data-engine=\"WordPress\"  data-plugin_v=\"2.6.59\"  data-prx=\"https:\/\/unitedresourceconnection.org\/goodyear-village-az-cdp\/wp-admin\/admin-ajax.php?action=likebtn_prx\"  data-event_handler=\"likebtn_eh\" ><\/span><!-- LikeBtn.com END --><\/div><p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.psychcentral.com\/anger\/2019\/12\/taking-control-over-your-choices\/\" target=\"_blank\">Visit Original Source<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An old Cherokee chief is teaching his grandson about life. \u201cA fierce fight is going on inside me.\u201d The chief said to the boy. \u201cIt is between two wolves. \u201cOne wolf is evil. 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