Coping with a Critical Family

Therapist: “You say you want a relationship with your mother. Well, you’ve got one, but it’s destructive. You cannot begin a constructive relationship with her until you put an end to this negative one. It sounds like you are feeling helpless and discouraged. I’m willing to guess she expects you

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Shared by Aaron Karmin, LCPC, Contributing Blogger November 23, 2018

5 Questions to Improve Understanding

Normally, things run smooth and our emotions and thoughts work in harmony towards a common goal.  However under situations of stress, unresolved anger, private sorrow, or paralyzing fear may flood our thoughts. We can make efforts to solve the mystery of where the intensity of our emotions comes from by getting

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Shared by Aaron Karmin, LCPC, Contributing Blogger November 16, 2018

The Politics of Anger

Below are four ways Trump’s presidency has evoked a sense of powerlessness: 1) Marginalization – when an individual or group minimizes or disavows the legitimacy, rights or privileges of others who are believed to be somehow different from the mainstream. 2) Internalizing external reality- themes of loss related to reduced

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Shared by Aaron Karmin, LCPC, Contributing Blogger November 4, 2018